16 Gifts for Your Insecure Girlfriend to Boost Her Confidence

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Gifts for Insecure Girlfriends

Being a girl is hard sometimes. There are so many things that we have to think about all the time. The last thing we want to be questioning is if our boyfriends still love us. But hey, we’re human, and sometimes things get to us and we get a little insecure. So when your girlfriend needs a little extra loving every now and then, come back to this list of gifts and you’ll find the perfect thing to remind her of your love.

Best Gifts for Insecure Girlfriends

Sometimes your girlfriend might feel insecure about the relationship the two of you are in. So here are some clever and practical gift ideas for insecure girlfriends that will help her feel more secure in the relationship. A thoughtful gift is the best way to show her how much you care and make her feel secure in the relationship. Here are 16 gifts to make your girlfriend feel secure.

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      Self-Love Workbook for Women
      Feeling insecure in your relationship usually stems from feeling insecure with yourself. If your girl is starting to have doubts, it’s time to take her back to her roots and remind her of self-love. This workbook will walk her through proven techniques that foster positive self-discovery, self-care, and self-esteem. Using inspiring quizzes and journaling activities, your girlfriend will find all the reasons you love her and love them within herself.
    2. BOND TOUCH Pair of Bracelets
      If you are in a long distance relationship, and your girl is feeling insecure about the space between you two, these bracelets are the sure fire way to ease that anxiety. These two bracelets are connected by an app and mimic your partner’s touch with gentle vibrations. The app sends you notifications for missed vibrations and includes a private chatroom for the two of you. The bracelets themselves are water resistant and have a 4 day battery life. No matter the distance between you and your boo, you will always stay connected with these bracelets.
    3. Telepathy Lamp
      These lamps are dubbed friendship lamps, but, of course, they can be used for relationships of any type. Similar to the BOND TOUCH bracelets, these lamps can be used over any distance and are connected through matching email IDs. When one person touches the lamp, the other person’s lamp will light up, as well, so your girlfriend will know exactly when you are thinking of her. With customizable colors, this present is sure to make your girl smile. And you can expect a constantly lit lamp from now on 😉
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      I Wrote a Book About You
      When your girlfriend is feeling insecure, sometimes the best thing is for her to be reminded of all the reasons you love her. This book is the perfect way for her to be reminded each and every day. A unique book for you to fill out with all of your favorite things about your favorite person. The prompts are silly and fun, but will hold more meaning for your girlfriend than you will ever know.
    5. You're Mine Coffee Mug
      If your girlfriend is having a bad day, a great way to pick her up at the end of the day is a nice book and a hot mug of tea. And what better mug to use than a mug that reminds her that she is yours forever? This sweet mug is made from high quality china and comes pre-gift wrapped for ease. This is sure to be the mug she reaches for every night and it will always make her think of you.
    6. Positive Thinking Quotations In a Jar
      So, your girl is feeling kinda down and needs a boost. Easiest way to boost her mood and make her feeling happy again? A jar full of quotes about positivity, of course! The Smiles by Julie jar contains a month’s worth of colorful quotes that are guaranteed to put a smile on her face and bring her out of her funk. This is the gift that just keeps on giving and truly shows how much your girlfriend means to you.
    7. Morse Code Bracelets
      Are you looking for something to show your girlfriend how much you love her without displaying it for the world? Then, these matching morse code bracelets are just for you! One bracelet spells out “his always” and the other spells out “hers forever”, which will show your girlfriend just how committed you truly are. A simple and discreet way to show your eternal love for your girl.
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      The Two of Us: A Three-Year Couples Journal
      Nothing says commitment like a three year plan, right? If your girlfriend is feeling insecure about your future together, this book should put her at ease. Each year, you and your partner will answer the same 365 questions and watch how your relationship grows and changes over time. The prompts range from fun and light-hearted to deep and meaningful, but remain short and sweet throughout. The perfect way to carve out a little bit of time between you and your girl every day and form an even stronger bond.
    9. Fidget Spinner Promise Ring
      If your girlfriend is feeling insecure, she may be struggling with anxiety. An excellent tool for combating anxiety is a fidget toy, and what better fidget toy is there than one that will promise your love to her forever? This fidget spinner ring is made of stainless steel and engraved with hearts and infinity symbols. High quality and scratch resistant, this ring is meant to last a lifetime. Or at least until you can buy a real engagement ring 😉
    10. I Love You 100 Languages Necklace
      How many ways are there to tell your girlfriend you love her? At least 100 ways. And this necklace uses them all! Hidden in the center of this gold necklace is a stone that when held up to the light projects “I love you” in one hundred different languages. Shaped like a beautiful infinity symbol, your girlfriend will be thanking you and you telling you she loves you one hundred times over.
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      Cleverfy Shower Steamers Aromatherapy
      If your girlfriend is feeling particularly anxious or overwhelmed, a nice, hot bath is always a great remedy. This variety pack of shower steamers will add some aromatherapy to your girl’s bath and help her relax. Each of the six shower steamers uses essential oils to create a different scent, and each scent helps with different ailments. The gift set even comes with a free e-book about aromatherapy! Your girlfriend will finally be able to relax and just breathe.
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      Giant Teddy Bear
      What girl doesn’t want a giant teddy bear? The answer: every girl wants a giant teddy bear. This teddy bear is over 4ft tall and the perfect snuggle buddy for your girlfriend when you’re not around. Adorable and super soft, this teddy will be the perfect friend for when your girlfriend is feeling down in the dumps and just needs something to squish. This teddy comes in a variety of colours and will be a gift that your girlfriend keeps forever.
    13. Sunflower Weighted Blanket
      Weighted blankets have been proven to reduce anxiety and I can say from personal experience, they work perfectly when you’re missing your partner next to you in bed. On nights when your girlfriend is feeling insecure and anxious, she can pull on this cute sunflower blanket and feel like your arms are wrapped around her. Lightweight and breathable, the blanket will leave your girl feeling safe and secure but still nice and cool. This blanket is 15lbs and comes in a variety of sizes, and will be sure to make those long nights without you just a little better.
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      Enchanted Red Silk Rose
      Is your girlfriend a fan of Disney? Is her favourite princess Belle from Beauty and the Beast? If so, this enchanted rose is sure to put a huge smile on your girl’s face. This beautiful rose is the perfect decor for any room in the house and adds a soft, romantic light to any situation. The tiny LED lights are embedded within the petals and a warm, white light illuminates the entire dome. Every time your girlfriend looks over at this gorgeous rose, she won’t be able to do anything but smile.
    15. THE COMFY Original | Wearable Blanket
      Sometimes when you’re feeling insecure, all you want is to curl up in a ball and listen to some sad music. The best way to do that is with this wearable blanket! Featured on Shark Tank, this blanket hoodie is soft and cozy on both sides and comes in a variety of styles and colours. Complete with a giant pocket on the front for whatever your girlfriend desires, she’ll never want to take this wearable blanket off.
    16. She Believed She Could So She Did Jewelry Tray
      Does your girlfriend have a lot of jewelry that she wears on a daily basis? It can be hard to keep it all organized and this gift is the perfect remedy! This sweet little jewelry tray is the perfect reminder for your girl every morning that she can do anything she puts her mind to. Hand painted and glazed with premium glaze, this elegant, ceramic try is durable and functional. It also comes pre-wrapped in a stylish gift box! With this inspirational quote that will become an involuntary mantra for your girl as she gets ready, she will start her day feeling more and more confident.


Have you ever wondered how you can help your girlfriend if she has insecurities? It is one thing to talk to her about it, but it is another thing to know what you can do to make her feel better. All the mentioned gifts will surely make your girlfriend feel at least a little less insecure and to be more confident that your love is real.

FAQs

Why does my girlfriend feel insecure around me?

No doubt you have said or done many things that cause your girlfriend to feel insecure, but the most important thing an insecure girlfriend wants to know is do you really love her. Knowing that you are on her side and not going to leave her for any girl will reassure her more than you may know.

How do I help my girlfriend overcome insecurities?

For you to help overcome her insecurity and make her feel loved and secure again, you need to prove yourself stable and trustworthy by expressing your worry for her continuously every time she feels insecure. Moreover, give her compliments about herself because this will help boost her self-confidence and make her proud of who she really is.

What type of gift should I give to my extremely insecure girlfriend?

If you’re looking for a gift for your girlfriend and she’s quite insecure, there are many things you could get for her. For starters, if she is insecure about your love, you can get her some romantic gift that clearly say I love you (to do Moon and back).